By Jackson Morris
Copyright © 2006, Seduction Insider, www.seductioninsider.com.
If you have seen any of the SUPERMAN series then you know about his "dual identity" as Clark Kent. He maintained this "persona" of both men separately when in the presence of "danger" or in the presence of "Lois Lane".
Superman only went after Lois Lane as the superhero because he tried consistently to court her as Clark Kent but she was not interested in the clumsy Kent.
The point made here is that even Superman could not bag the girl of his dreams as a "regular guy". Make no mistake that women want the same things we want including the fairy tale wedding. Everyone wants to be in love but everyone wants assurance up front that the relationship will last and each of us "individually" won't stray, lose interest, cheat, and lie or cause a rift.
Superman realized that his image as a trustworthy servant to the people was far more attractive to Lois than just the regular guy who might just be like everyone else……………a player.
We are All SUPER MEN
I started this essay with the Superman analogies so that you seasoned guys (and rookies) out there understand that when it comes to attracting the opposite sex everyone has an "alter ego" and the women out there that are marriage minded might not see you as a candidate if you can't redeem yourself as a player first.
Player redemption is about taking the cool side of you and mixing it with the serious side of you so that you create an attractive balance of intrigue and stability. Eventually every player will shift gears and want to settle down with that special female. But keep in mind that special female might be impressed by your brio and stamina but she might also wonder if that same passion is insatiable. If she thinks you act that way with every girl and not just her then you will never be redeemed in her mind as a player
You are a super man because if you are not then what is your alternative? You don't have one. Keep in mind that shifting personality gears is not about Jekyll & Hyde so much as it is about when to be one thing and when to be another. Player redemption is not about extinguishing your original personality it is about "controlling" it so she thinks you are all the guys she wants rolled up into one.
A little bit of this…a little bit of that…
When you meet a smoking hot chick who you think is the one but you met her by hitting on her the same way you hit on everyone else then she will think you have this game that you can not turn off. She might dig it and think you are sexy but she might wonder if you will do that with every girl you are with.
It is time to show her that the hot guy at the club she met is also a sensitive and caring man who has feelings and would like a commitment as well. The way you show her Player Redemption is when you two are in public and in private that you treat her like a lady…and you treat her like she is the ONLY lady that gets your attention. When Superman is in front of Lois (and others are watching) he acts like she is the only woman in the world. Player redemption will happen right before her eyes if she sees that you have a stable job or at least career goals that are tangible. Or, if she sees you "thwart off" any advances or flirtations from other women. Or, if she sees you doing kind deeds like volunteer work act as a benefactor. Those items are just the start of what your "split personality" should offer her. She needs to see that you are the best of both worlds.
A little bit of that…a little bit of this…
The other side of you (the side she met) is the side that will keep her "excited" so don't lose that side either. She likes that side because that side of you is what got her interested to begin with. You can be a Player Redeemed and still be her personal player at home. So, do not ease up on the romance, in fact, make the romance a little dirty. I would even try to make the dirty romance coincide with a good deed. Meaning if you spent the day cleaning out the garage, raking leaves and grocery shopping without complaining then reward yourself with some good ole' fashioned anal sex in the kitchen.
Being a bit of a bad boy that she can control and being a lot of a good guy that she does not have to control but admires will keep her interested 7 days a week. The top two reasons people cheat is insecurity and boredom so if you are a player redeemed and playing both sides of that field then she will not be bored and she will feel secure in knowing that she has your attention.
Player redemption is about understanding who you are; a multi-faceted individual with a unique personality. You (we) are capable of being more than one-dimensional. It is those personalities that we posses that make us fun and unique individuals. So if you are looking for Player Redemption I highly suggest taking a deep breath as you put on your cape and realize as a superhero the one person you will ultimately save is yourself.
