By Dr. Dennis Neder
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Dear Dr Neder,
I seem to have hit a recent dry-spell with women. Every woman I keep running into is already "involved" with someone else, have messed up lives, or something is mentally wrong with them!
For a while I`ll have plenty of women to choose from, then all of a sudden, the well runs dry! The old ones start boring me, and the new ones are basically crazy! Is this common?
Is it really a numbers game like they say? I`d like to get back on the right track as quick as possible!
Thanks Doc!
Hello,
This is actually quite common. You`re going to have the feast/famine scenario pretty regularly, but that`s not a bad thing - if you make use of the feast side of things and plan for the famine.
The trick is to gather numbers when the gettin` is good, and to harvest those numbers when things get slim. Remember that you want to space things out a little bit so that you’re not calling women back before a week anyway. If you play things right, you can actually make contact with them and put them back another 2 weeks, make contact again, etc. You can only do this about 3-4 times before she’s going to go crazy wondering if you’re ever going to actually meet her however!
Further, yes - you`re going to find that many women you meet are either crazy, demanding, game-playing, claim to already be hooked up, (even though they just spent the last 40 minutes flirting with you), or just down-right bitches! This is just the rule of the game. You won`t know these things until after you call them back, so be ready. These are the hazards...
Dr. Dennis Neder
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