By Jackson Morris
Copyright © 2006, Seduction Insider, www.seductioninsider.com.
Superman uses "phone booths" to change into costume. Batman had a "cave" where his transformation took place and Shazam required a "bolt of lighting". All of the most gallant of super heroes required some obvious metamorphosis to transpire before their powers became evident.
If you want the "party guy", here is the formula: just add alcohol. Ironically, if you want to turn a guy into an asshole the formula is the same: just add alcohol.
For the life long "Casanova" out there who thinks his game gets better with a drink - you are probably right. Too bad many men don't know when they have gone from aphrodisiac to maniac and by then it is too late to salvage any good pooty. The majority of men out there use alcohol to "loosen up" and then "liven up" and then "throw up".
Are you one of those guys who go from Casanova to caveman in just a few drinks?
Video Interviews
Don't you wish you could have someone secretly video tape you when you go out either alone or with your buddies prowling for princess'? There is little doubt if you were able to see you (and others) taped "in action" then you would change your game dramatically. If you have ever been to "the river" or a lake in the summer time - everyone is plastered drunk and half naked and hopping in and out of everyone's boat - flashing boobs, doing shots - next day, rinse & repeat.
That is an environment worth taping merely for the "decadence" factor. Much more intricate details can be found if one video taped you in the bar from beginning to end of an encounter with a woman while you are drinking. What you would find is BOTH of you changing your stripes right before your eyes.
As important a lesson it would be to watch ourselves in these moments the real lesson lies in watching her watch you. When we approach females it is really like a job interview and we only have a few minutes to apply for the job. The funny thing is, the job interview can last a few minutes or a few hours and she decides this each time you talk or when you make her laugh or say something clever etc.
This is the only job interview that serves alcohol and if you drink too much you could get fired and if you don't drink enough you might bore her to death. This is not to say you can not pick up a girl without drinking - you will find that females who drink are often more comfortable when the guy is drinking, most especially in a social setting. So pick a poison.
Set The Pace
If you have a big beer belly or a high testosterone level (college guys) then you are probably not reading this and are past the point of no return you drunks! You guys start drinking too early and for no reason other than to get "hammered". I learned early in life that the party always ends. If we know this then why try to make it end faster? If I am going out to a bar at 9:00pm with buddies, I will have a drink at my house right before I leave just to loosen up and let it digest before I get there. Don't sit there and pound beers from 7-9 pm and show up to the bar spent.
The real deal about bars and clubs: women do not show up early! They show up when there is something to see and for people to see them. As soon as they walk in the room the energy around you will either say "fun guy" or "wasted". The real action at a happening place that closes at 2am is about 10:30 - 11:00 o'clock. This is the time you should be "buzzed" but not wasted. This is the "witching hour" when the girls are ready and the boys are slowly running back to the pumpkin carriage - like Cinderefella about to turn from Casanova to caveman.
HOT TIP: No matter how much a female loses her inhibitions while drinking - she can always tell when YOU are drunker than her - this will rarely ever work in your favor.
Some Girls Like The Loud Party Guy
Some girls don't want the cool Casanova cat crawling around them and laying on the thick love potion. Some girls like the loud party guy because their life is boring during the week and this behavior substitutes for what is missing in their "party folder". The party guy can seem charismatic and lively with charm and personality to command her attention or that of her peers. She picks this guy based on looks, liquor level and loudness. Some girls feel secure with guys like this because they seem so secure with themselves. When she sees you drinking and having fun she knows your inhibitions are down and thus hers will begin to drop too.
Then it happens - Gary Goodlooks turns into Danny Drunkslob right before their eyes - slurring his words, swearing up a storm and making politically incorrect statements he "thinks" he is whispering. How did he have the attention of the girl and her friends and then all the sudden turn into Oliver at the bar - "more please". IT WAS THE BOOZE! The liquid love you have put in your gut has turned you into a monster.
Cruise Control
Someone rewind the tape! There was no phone booth or Bat Cave or bolt of lightning - and you woke up alone again…or worse yet with someone you don't recognize. The publisher of this site would have to wake up in China during rush hour to equal all the "black out one night stands" he has encountered - but like most he found his way. The point is; it is roughly a 5 Drink Window that changes us from winner to weed whacker.
So when do you make your move? Strike while the iron is hot. If you are the life of the party or you finally have her attention - stop drinking and put yourself on "cruise control". Remain Casanova for a little while longer you might get laid…and remember it.
